Welcome to my blog. 

I hope you will add, follow and share with others who might find it useful.

I’m a 20 year old young lady (in the true sense of the word) and I have been blessed or cursed whichever way you look at it with a 34JJ bust.  I have had to find my way around the big bra market, measuring, washing etc all by myself as big boobs are nowhere else in my family and my girl friends don’t have the same troubles. My mum has helped and been supportive, not as in she’s carried them around for me, but she’s spent a lot of money and done a lot of bra research with me and strapped me into many a beast of a bra.

OK so before people think “Oh she just wants people to look at her huge mammaries” or “she’s just attention seeking” or “she’s looking for a glamour modelling job” I can assure you categorically that there is nothing further from the truth.

I have a brain, wit and charm and am studying and working hard for what I want in life and modelling for someone else’s thrills is not it. Attention seeker I am not as you will no doubt discover if you hop on for the journey.

What I am is frustrated. Frustrated by the following:

 Finding comfortable 24 hour bras (yes I cannot sleep without a bra as the weight of my boob untethered is not only really painful it also makes it difficult for me to breathe)

Finding bras which are pretty for a 20 year old girl but still comfortable and do the job of defying gravity (not necessarily for aesthetic reasons but again for health reasons)

 Finding a strapless bra (this is a joke but I’ve not given up yet)

Dressing to suit my figure. I am quite lucky in that although I’m curvy my curves give me an hour glass shape but dressing my big bust can lead to covering my small waist something I don’t like to do

Equally wearing anything high necked can make me look ‘all boob’ and fat so I like to try lower cut necklines but if I dare to show a tiny proportion of breast tissue I’m often loudly referred to in public as having my boobs hanging out or of showing off my boob job

Swimwear…just finding swimwear

Health – keeping my back. shoulders and neck from suffering long term damage, I have a small frame to carry these around on and where do I start to self-examine?

Preventing skin damage, discolouration of skin from constant bra wearing, stretch marks etc

People thinking my boobs are me and envying them, assumptions that I have had a ridiculous boob job and assumptions that any man who speaks to me is only doing so because I have big boobs, oh and also people thinking they have a right to grab them, particularly women. it’s kind of like how people can automatically stroke a preggo lady’s belly without asking.

So I’m going to use this blog to:

•  review bras as and when I buy them or as and when anyone asks me to (I’ll happily post photos with no head, while my head isn’t offensive I don’t want it associated with my body in lingerie)
•  review clothes I buy and how they fit or otherwise on my boobs, how they flatter or don’t and that kind of thing
• put together looks from high street stores for occasions or just hanging out which I feel flatter a bigger bust
• share anecdotes regarding these body parts
• ask for your opinions and input to help me cope
• share promotions and articles I come across relevant to bras, boobs, underwear, breast health and such as well as any offers, discounts or sales I find

I won’t lie I’m a uni student at the moment and I also work in retail part time and in a bar part time too (lots of opportunities for cringey boob related chat up lines to come). I’d like to go into some kind of retail head office position, marketing, merchandising, buying perhaps and this blog might help me to get where I want to be. But first and foremost I want it to be useful and fun.

So welcome to my blog, next post will be my first review… a Bravissimo bra