Welcome to my blog.
I hope you will add, follow and share with others who might
find it useful.
I’m a 20 year old young lady (in the true sense of the word) and I have been
blessed or cursed whichever way you look at it with a 34JJ bust. I have had to find my way around the big bra
market, measuring, washing etc all by myself as big boobs are nowhere else in
my family and my girl friends don’t have the same troubles. My mum has helped
and been supportive, not as in she’s carried them around for me, but she’s
spent a lot of money and done a lot of bra research with me and strapped me
into many a beast of a bra.
OK so before people think “Oh she just wants people to look
at her huge mammaries” or “she’s just attention seeking” or “she’s looking for
a glamour modelling job” I can assure you categorically that there is nothing
further from the truth.
I have a brain, wit and charm and am studying and working
hard for what I want in life and modelling for someone else’s thrills is not
it. Attention seeker I am not as you will no doubt discover if you hop on for
the journey.
What I am is frustrated. Frustrated by the following:
Finding bras which are pretty for a 20 year old
girl but still comfortable and do the job of defying gravity (not necessarily
for aesthetic reasons but again for health reasons)
Finding a strapless bra (this is a joke but I’ve
not given up yet)
Dressing to suit my figure. I am quite lucky in
that although I’m curvy my curves give me an hour glass shape but dressing my
big bust can lead to covering my small waist something I don’t like to do
Equally wearing anything high necked can make me look ‘all boob’ and fat so I
like to try lower cut necklines but if I dare to show a tiny proportion of
breast tissue I’m often loudly referred to in public as having my boobs hanging
out or of showing off my boob job
Swimwear…just finding swimwear
Health – keeping my back. shoulders and neck
from suffering long term damage, I have a small frame to carry these around on
and where do I start to self-examine?
Preventing skin damage, discolouration of skin
from constant bra wearing, stretch marks etc
People thinking my boobs are me and envying
them, assumptions that I have had a ridiculous boob job and assumptions that
any man who speaks to me is only doing so because I have big boobs, oh and also
people thinking they have a right to grab them, particularly women. it’s kind
of like how people can automatically stroke a preggo lady’s belly without
asking.
So I’m going to use this blog to:
- review bras as and when I buy them or as and when anyone asks me to (I’ll happily post photos with no head, while my head isn’t offensive I don’t want it associated with my body in lingerie)
- review clothes I buy and how they fit or otherwise on my boobs, how they flatter or don’t and that kind of thing
- put together looks from high street stores for occasions or just hanging out which I feel flatter a bigger bust
- share anecdotes regarding these body parts
- ask for your opinions and input to help me cope
- share promotions and articles I come across relevant to bras, boobs, underwear, breast health and such as well as any offers, discounts or sales I find
I won’t lie I’m a uni student at the moment and I also work
in retail part time and in a bar part time too (lots of opportunities for
cringey boob related chat up lines to come). I’d like to go into some kind of
retail head office position, marketing, merchandising, buying perhaps and this
blog might help me to get where I want to be. But first and foremost I want it
to be useful and fun.
So welcome to my blog, next post will be my first review… a
Bravissimo bra
